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Depressing drive-by post 
23rd-Oct-2009 09:04 am
So much for a new start, huh? I should retitle my LJ I Suck at Posting or The Most Depressing LJ Ever.

J hurt his shoulder a couple of weeks ago and has been out of work since then. He has to have an MRI(still in the process of being scheduled).

His dad saw a urologist about his possible prostate issues - - no tumor, but he had a biopsy Wednesday. We're waiting to hear. His mom's about the same, doing chemo again.

My BFF Jan's mom... Jan's been saying for a while that her mom wasn't acting right, but she's in her 80s and we thought it was a normal thing. Jan finally got her to a doctor last week - - she had a tennis ball sized brain tumor, which they did surgery on yesterday. The doctor removed "most of it", but they still only give her 9 months(with radiation) or 3 months(without radiation). Jan's a mess - - she lives with her mom. I hate like hell to see her go through this, because I know exactly how it is. We don't know yet how her mom will be, as far as movement, speech, or her mind.

I'm exhausted with work, worrying about J, his parents, Jan and her mom.

Send good thoughts.
23rd-Oct-2009 03:59 pm (UTC)
Holy cats you're going through a lot. *Massive HUGS*
23rd-Oct-2009 04:34 pm (UTC)
Oh, sweetie, what a terrible situation all around. I'm keeping you and J and all your loved ones in my thoughts and prayers. *Huge, huge hugs*
23rd-Oct-2009 07:21 pm (UTC)
23rd-Oct-2009 07:51 pm (UTC)
Sending you lots of good thoughts and virtual hugs. I'm so sorry you're having to go through all this. Some days, all you can do is hope Nietzsche was right...

*hugs you*
24th-Oct-2009 08:17 am (UTC)
Oh, honey... {{hugs}}

*sends good thoughts*
24th-Oct-2009 08:36 am (UTC)
::hugs:: That is a lot to deal with.

But you can't be the most depressing LJ ever. I'm pretty sure another friend has it sewed up.
24th-Oct-2009 12:01 pm (UTC)
***huge hugs*** sending peaceful thoughts and keeping you and everyone in my prayers
24th-Oct-2009 08:38 pm (UTC)
Sending best thoughts for you, J, your relatives and friend.
25th-Oct-2009 05:30 pm (UTC)
*hugs you tight*

Oh, sweetie. I am so sorry. I can't even imagine what you're going through. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and sending you love and strength and hoping for nothing but the best for your loved ones.

I'm so glad you posted. I've been thinking about you and wondering if you were okay. I'm glad you reached out. You're not alone.
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